Jom sama-sama kita renungkan hadith ni..
teruskan membaca lagi sahabat...
Genap satu tahun, bermula pula tahun yang baru. Begitulah putaran dunia ini. Hari menjadi bulan. Bulan bertukar tahun melintasi hidup kita dengan kepantasan yang begitu menakjubkan.
Adakah kita benar-benar mengetahui nilainya?
Sesungguhnya hari-hari yang berlalu tidak lain dan tidak bukan, itulah sebenarnya usia kita.
Berlalu satu hari, bahkan satu detik, berkuranglah umur kita dan bertambah dekatlah kita kepada ajal. Detik yang sedang kita berada sekarang ini sekejap lagi akan pergi seperti detik-detik lalu yang telah pergi. Dan detik yang lain pula akan menggantikan tempatnya. Kemudian pergi lagi dan bertukar lagi. Kemudian, tiba-tiba, sedar tak sedar kita telah berada di dalam kubur!
Maka apa yang kita sediakan?
Detik inilah satu-satunya peluang untuk kita mengumpul bekalan kerana apabila kita telah terbaring di dalam kubur, tiada lagi peluang untuk mencari bekalan, tiada lagi peluang untuk kembali memperbaiki kesilapan.
Maka apa yang patut kita persiapkan?
Soalan yang mesti dijawab sendiri oleh setiap orang daripada kita. Renung dan tanyalah diri sendiri apa bekalan untuk hidup di alam barzakh dan alam akhirat nanti? Apa persediaan yang telah dibuat untuk mengadap Allah Yang Maha Agong di padang mahsyar kelak? Fikirkanlah…
Adakah amalan bertambah dengan penambahan usia di muka bumi ini?
Adakah semakin dekat dengan ajal kita semakin dekat dengan Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla?
Adakah akaun pahala kita meningkat hari demi hari?
Adakah kita termasuk orang yang umurnya makin kurang dan amalan juga kian merosot? Dan lebih malang lagi kalau orang yang umurnya makin berkurang, maksiat pula bertambah kencang. Semoga kita dijauhkan Allah dari termasuk dalam kedua-dua golongan tersebut.

selamat hari rya eidul adha kwn2 semua...
ambillah pengajaran di sebalik istilah PENGORBANAN...^^
pengorbanan dari segi setiap aspek kehidupan..
Anas ibn Malik said, ” I shall tell you a hadith which I heard from the Messenger of Allah (May Allah shower peace and blessings upon him), and which no one will tell you after me. I heard him say “Among the signs of the Hour will be disappearance of knowledge and the appearance of ignorance. Adultery will be prevalent and the drinking of wine will be common. The number of men will decrease and the number of women will increase until there will be fifty women to be looked after by one man.”"
This hadith was reported in the two Shahihs from the hadith of Abd Rabbihi.
It is without a doubt that 'normal' males cannot accept the fact that their female counterparts are more successful than they are. I've asked a few males friends of mine as to whether they can accept these kinds of women. And not surprisingly, almost all of them cannot accept the fact that their future wives are those of the dominant types. But let's face it, being the current world in which the world in dominated by the number of females, tons of them are capable of supporting themselves, without having to rely on men, let alone to share their lives with them.
Or it could also be in a situation that can be considered much worse off, where the men are basically under the Queen Control regime. The men do not have a say in any kind of major decisions made in regards to family matters or being restricted to their respective partners, which could lead to further complications such as the men not being able to be 'free'.
Or it could be the most simple situation whereby the female partners are generally much better off in terms of position, salaries, or even up to a certain point their popularity as compared to their men partners. Whereby in this situation, the 'normal' men feeling inferior to their female counterparts and thus seek ways to imply their authorities in the relationship, where in normal circumstances, the men will invoke their polygamous rights (hak berpoligami) into the picture, EVEN though they understand very well that they do not have the capability to bear the responsibility that came along with the power to invoke the polygamous rights.
With that said, it is a complicated matter that can be of concern especially in this kind of climate whereby the world is slowly but surely dominated by females. One might even say that this kind of thought will only come from those without enough self confidence to see their partners NOT as superior, BUT as equals. Well, that might be true, but we have to keep in mind that these ARE humans we are talking about.
Well, of course, in the perfect world, if I were to have a more successful wife in my life, I would definitely view it positively, in the sense that I would be happy that someone dependable is on my side. Also as long as she does understand the duties and what can and cannot be done within the scope of being a wife. After all, I myself like smart and outspoken girls as opposed to passive and dormant girls.
The men will definitely have to try to improve on their situation, attitude so to speak, and have more confidence in making decisions to gain the respect of their female partners. And the same goes for women, naturally as women, they have something within themselves to be lead by men. Yes, call me sexist or whatever, but that's how it goes.
But of course, I'm a man that is still subject to criticism. WaAllhua'lam.
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